Oh please, big is not in!?

My topic is about big verses small, yesterday I was at my cubicle and I overheard one of the other female employees going on and on with another female employee on how big is the new y and how being small is played out. She proceeded to say how small women are not apealing to most men anymore and how men are prefering thick women over little women. I asked her what does she consider "skinny" she then said women like me. Mind you this women is about 5'4 and 220 pounds and I am 5'7 130 pounds. I asked what makes you think small women are not "in" she says because Monique showed on the Bet awards last night that big girls are just as y as small girls if not more. I have nothing against big women but it pisses me off when big women try to make smaller women fell bad for not being big. I told her if she was truley satisfied with her size she would not be defaming smaller women. I hate the term skinny because I am not skinny I am slinder with very nice curves. What do u think?