Tuesday, August 16, 2011

I gave my friends 'the silent treatment' (their interpretation and now everythings ruined...?

As life goes on, you'll soon realize that true friends are hard to find. After 2 years, your "friends" should have moved on with their lives. I have been a victim of a one sided friendship before and it hurts. I was always the one who did everything, just like you. As for the friend who never apologizes for anything, I feel your pain as well. My same "friend" didn't apologize for anything either, but instead insisted that either I can't take a joke, I'm too sensitive, or that it was all in my head. I soon realized that even if those things were true, she still should have apologized for hurting my feelings. She also tries to impress people as well. Just know that people like that are just insecure with themselves. They feel like they're "too good or too cool" to apologize and admit that they were wrong. They have to belittle people to feel good about themselves. It's so pathetic if you really think about it. As for the reason why they can't talk to you, the only ones that will truly know is them. Again, they probably feel better about themselves by talking about you. Please, don't sink to their level. I can ure you, you are meant to have friends. Take a deep breath and forget about the ones that have hurt you and hold your head up high. Don't sulk. Do your hair, nails, and makeup nicely and dress with pride. Get to know other people at school. It's good to have a variety of friends, so don't stick with just one "group." If you show an interest in someone, they'll usually show one back. I know exactly how you feel and wish you the best of luck. Hope I helped :-)

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